9/06/2009
Date and a good laugh
Sam asked me out last evening, and we went to my café de choix, Les Deux Magots fot a lengthy talk, if I would take him back after all. He is clean and sober now and started his juristic studies now. It seemed, as if he was all of the guy I met some years ago. That makes it a bit difficult for me to decide. ...On a different note, I couldn´t sleep last nite because these dry massages(minds off the gutter!) on my leg always give me cramps like hell. I took magnesia pills but they worked only little better as bananas, as you paramedics told me. ...Then, before I fall asleep, I want you to thank David for his hilarious two posts. I coukdn´t hold me laughing! :-D Laters Pilgrim...and please comment, or do I have to carry you to comment!? :-)
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Allowing someone back into your heart can be a very difficult decision. Though you remember the joy and love they brought into your life, there is always the recollection of disappointment as well. Good luck to you.
And have I been absent from your comment area? My apologies. I've got some serious legal issues hanging over me at the moment and my mind is simply elsewhere these days.
Doc
That’s indeed a hard decision, if you trust again maybe you try to fix an illusion or you get a deeper understanding and stronger closeness to him because of your experiences, both things are possible. I’m not the person to give advice here but my good wishes are with you.
I forget why you dumped him. Some questions for you to ask yourself are: 1. was it a valid reason to dump him at the time (if not, then it's not fair to him to take him back, because you could do it again); 2. if it was valid then, is it still valid (if not, you might consider taking him back); 3. why would you want to take him back; 4. what does taking him back mean to you; 5. does it mean the same thing to him; 6. what about Val?
That sounds like a very sweet time :) Sorry I can't give much advice yet, but of course it's only good to go further when you're sure, if that makes sense.
Try drinking water for the cramps. I find that helps a lot because I get leg cramps all the time (I'm a swimmer)
:)
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